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13 Tricks That Will Make Potty Training Your Kid a Breeze

Professional experts and creative parents share their secrets to bathroom success.

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Potty training is a big step for your little one — goodbye, diapers, hello, big kid underwear! And, while the experience itself can be tough at times, it's also a chance for your toddler to grow and gain confidence in this new independent phase of their life.

Remember, it's usually easiest to follow your child's cues and keep your expectations in check. Your little one might have a great day of going on the potty one day, and the next day have a couple of accidents. That's normal!

Ahead, we spoke with parenting experts and parents in the trenches for the best tips to make potty training a breeze.

Meet the experts

1

Focus on your child

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This is not a situation for multitasking, Jamie Glowacki, author of Oh Crap! Potty Training, tells GoodHousekeeping.com. "Watch your child very closely for the first couple of days to see when they're ready to go," she says.

That can be hard, she admits, but she encourages parents to consider it a bonding experience. "Give this your full attention," she says. "I see parents posting about having trouble potty training or how bored they are stuck in the bathroom, and all I can think is, 'Well, you're on Facebook.' It can be hard, but give your child as much of your attention as you can during this time. It will pay off."

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Never ask "Do you need to potty?"

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That's Glowacki's cardinal rule to avoiding a power struggle. Instead, she prompts children with a statement, a choice or a challenge:

"A statement is 'Come, let's potty.' Or, 'It's time to go potty now.'

A choice is, 'Would you like to go first or should I?' Or, 'Do you want to go in the big potty or the little potty?'

And a challenge is great for little stinkers: 'I'll race you to the bathroom.' Or 'I wonder if you know how to potty now?'"

Hey, whatever it takes to teach a kid healthy attitudes about the bathroom — and the self-control to hold it until they're at the toilet.

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3

Solve stage fright with Play-Doh

"Poop is the hardest thing about potty training," Glowacki says. "There's a lot of fear and anxiety around it. Kids sit and they can't release."

To help, Glowacki has a list of things to try, the first of which is Play-Doh. Sometimes, a child needs to see what pooping looks like. The best (admittedly gross way) is Play-Doh. She also suggests having a child blow bubbles or sing a song. "Singing loosens the lips, which loosens the sphincter, just like in childbirth," she says.

4

Don't offer a diaper for poop

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Sometimes, an otherwise potty-trained child will request a diaper when it's time for No. 2. Try not to give in, Glowacki says. "It's a habit. A child who can request a diaper is aware of the feeling. They want the conditions to be right for them. They have some fear and anxiety and they don't know what to do. You need to work through that."

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Use a coffee filter to make messes easier to clean

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Once your little one does poop, you're left to dispose of the mess if you're using a toddler potty. ("Oh, fun!" said no parent ever.) Make it easier with this tip from the blog, Mama Frankenstein: Set a coffee filter in the potty, so all you need to do is pop the filter into the diaper pail. Boom.

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Keep their eyes on the prize

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Some kids work well with a reward system. To potty train her tricky toddler, Laura Rossi, who previously wrote the blog My So-Called Sensory Life, motivated him with a clear jar filled with prizes, like Matchbox Cars, that he got to pick from each time he pooped. Make sure you let your child see, touch, and discuss the jar, Rossi adds. Then leave it where the child can see — and associate it with going potty.

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Deploy sugar with caution

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Experts will tell you not to bribe your toddler with sweets. Other parents will tell you that the time will come when you'll have to bribe your toddler with sweets. Translation? Use rewards like lollipops or M&Ms judiciously and consider a different option if you're not entirely comfortable with a candy-based reward.

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Track progress on a chart

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If your kid loves to have a goal, create a chart and make it a game. This is a great way to keep track for the prize jar, too.

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Grab a stool

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When kids use an adult-size toilet, make sure they have a stool for their feet. Not only will it help them get up onto the seat, it'll be something for them to brace against if they have to poop. Plus, it's generally more comfortable.

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Make sure they can reach the water!

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When it's time to wash hands, you'll want to make sure they can actually reach the water! You can buy a fun faucet extender, or make your own out of an empty shampoo or soap bottle. Kids love that it looks like a little water slide.

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Make it a coloring activity

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To keep bored kids on the ivory throne long enough, give them washable or dry-erase markers and let them color on the lid while sitting on the toilet backwards. (First, test markers on a small area of the lid to make sure they wipe off.) A bonus: Turning kids backwards means less likelihood of sprays and messes.

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Memorize this song

Or just bask in its cuteness. When mom Stacia Wright posted this ditty in the midst of potty training her 2-year-old, it understandably went viral.

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Be prepared for when you're on the go

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Once you've mastered the potty skills at home, you've got to bring them into the real world. Depending on your destination, some extra gear might help. You might want to buy a foldable travel seat cover to make a public toilet smaller for little kids, or a portable potty that comes with disposable bags if you find yourself in a situation where there are no public bathrooms at hand.

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